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Being in a relationship is a beautiful thing. You have someone you can call your own, and you can share your dreams with that person. You wake up to them by your side, expect their calls throughout the day, and can’t wait to talk to them at night.
Is that what being in a relationship truly entails? I wasn’t told that I would have to call every day. They didn’t tell me there would be endless questions to ask and answer. With this in mind, one has to keep coming up with things to say that can unwrap different layers of your partner to keep the relationship fresh.
There are different aspects to these questions, as different times require different questions. Examples of these aspects include Deep, Dirty, Funny, and Open-ended questions. You will need to fill your arsenal with these because at any point in time, your girlfriend would drip the weight of the conversation on you and it’s compulsory you carry the burden (yes, I said it).
Worry no more, because below lies the answers to your questions or should I say (the questions to your questions).
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Deep questions to ask your girlfriend
What do I mean by deep? These are questions that tend to dig into one’s soul and bring out answers one never thought were therein.
Come here, let me whisper a little secret in your ear.
These are questions you can ask your girlfriend to make her keep quiet and keep reasoning. However, also bear in mind that deep questions can also open a sea of questions for you. So, use them at your own risk.
Are relationships meant to last forever?
I hope you are ready for what comes next. This question can pose a different meaning to your girlfriend. It can mean you are about to break up with her or you have been having thoughts about it.
It can also mean you want to have a simple conversation (haha, not in this multiverse). Jokes aside though, you can learn a lot about your partner and their ideologies from this question.
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What will you do when you are heartbroken from a breakup?
Smash my PS5? Break my car mirror? Walk away? Beat me up? This question lies between deep and funny. It can be a very playful question in which you both expand on different answers.
However, beware, for if used at the wrong time, it can plant seeds of doubt in your girlfriend’s mind.
Is there ever a good time to tell a lie?
Personally, I think… (oh you were not asking for my opinion). This is a good question to inform you about the kind of girlfriend you have. Whether Yes or No, this is a great conversation opener to talk about various scenarios in which she can be in that position.
This question places you on a moral high ground so you’d want to be careful about how you reply if the question gets reversed.
How do you measure success?
If you want to know if you and your partner are charting the same course in life, then this question is for you.
People have different responses to how they measure success. If you both have opposing views, it can be sensible to come to a consensus or you can both chase different dreams but have love bind you. Option C – Break up.
Which of us would you want our children to take after?
You should ask this question if you are sure she is the one for you. It is a hope-raising question and can leave one’s other half excited. It can also give you the chance to access your girlfriend’s conclusion of you.
Keep in mind, though, that she might find this question too deep.
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Other questions include:
- What makes you feel happy?
- Who inspires you the most?
- What are your short-term and long-term goals?
- Is there a difference between friendship and a relationship?
- If you had just seven days left on earth, what would you spend them doing?
- Do you want children?
- What is your relationship like with your father?
- Would you ever forgive me for cheating?
- Are you open to a second wife?
- Do you like to have family around whether yours or mine?
- Is there something you are not telling me that you should?
- Are you a feminist?
- What is your biggest fear?
- Who pays on date nights?
- Do you love me?
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Dirty questions to ask your girlfriend
These questions pose a more appealing nature to your girlfriend. After dating for a long time, it can be understandable to see reasons to stop trying in the relationship.
I strongly advise against it though. You must strive to keep your bond fresh and new ways to make her lust after you and love herself.
- How do you want it tonight?
- Do you want a hot or cold bath?
- Can you lie down and let me do all the work?
- Are you too tired for a massage?
- Would you be my good girl today?
- What do you want me to wear tonight? I’m taking you dancing
- Do you like it when I?…..(fill in the blank)
- How often do you think married couples should have s3x?
- Do you wish we would use s3x toys more?
- What fantasies have you never told me about?
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Funny questions to ask your girlfriend
There is no substitute for fun. Fun questions are such that bring calmness, happiness, comfort ability, and love. For a flourishing relationship, there must be times when you would need to employ fun questions.
Don’t be so uptight every time.
- What’s the first thing you do when you have the house all to yourself?
- If we started a band together, what would you want us to be called?
- Which animal would be the most useless pet in your opinion?
- Would you rather be a lion or a panda?
- What body part do you think best defines your personality?
- What would you do if you were me for a day?
- Would you rather have super speed or be invisible?
- If you were the last person on earth with the power to resurrect one person, who would that be?
- Who’s your favourite artist in the world?
- What movie is way better than the book?
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“Would you rather” questions to ask your girlfriend
“Would you rather” is a game that presents one with two choices, with the aim of picking one over the other. This is a cute game to play with your girlfriend to pass time as you can analyze every answer and her deep, flirty or funny. It can cut across a lot of areas and keep the conversation in game mode.
- Would you rather work a job that questions your ethics and make a lot of money or have a job that doesn’t pay well but keeps your morality intact?
- Would you rather take a vow of celibacy or take a vow of silence?
- Would you rather be rich and famous or just rich?
- Would you rather play-fight or role-play?
- Would you rather be with a quiet or passionate lover?
- Would you rather have s3x without love or love without s3x?
- Would you rather sleep with your dad’s best friend or your arch-enemy?
- Would you rather be submissive or dominating?
- Would you rather spank or be spanked?
- Would you rather have more money or more time?
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Questions to ask your Girlfriend: In conclusion
This is the farthest I can take you. I have given you the bait and you can now get the fish.
Sometimes, though, these questions are normally thought to be ineffective, but this is because they are usually used without proper planning and not because of the questions. There is a time and a place, so pick the required question patiently.
