The popular slogan, ‘men are scum’ seem to have been vindicated after a cunning tactic of a Nigerian man to break up with his girlfriend left the young lady in tears.
The Nigerian lady shared her pain on a dating site where she explained how her boyfriend of four years broke up with her by lying about his s3xuality.
According to the young woman, her boyfriend claimed to be gay and dumped her, but she later found out that he had actually broken up with her to move on with another woman.
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On a faithful day, the young woman went to her ex-boyfriend’s apartment to pack the rest of her belongings but unfortunately saw a woman who he claimed to be his colleague cooking together in his kitchen.
He has been in a relationship and they are expecting a baby
The disheartened young woman confronted the supposed colleague and explained to her how her ex boyfriend claimed to be gay.
The ‘colleague’ laughed and explained that they’ve been dating and they are in fact expecting a child.
In order to confirm the lady’s words, the brokenhearted woman called the boyfriend on phone, but realized he had blocked her, then she used the new girlfriend’s phone to call him and he picked up and called her “babe.”
“Hi Auntie Momoza. Please hide my identity. I have been having a normal relationship with my boyfriend of 4 years. Out of the blue last month he told me he is attracted to men. I thought he was joking until he introduced me to his boyfriend. I asked if he still had feelings for me and he said he liked me as a friend. Those words went ghuu in my heart. I decided to move out of his apartment,” she said.
“Last week I went back to his apartment to fetch the rest of my stuff and found a girl he once introduced me as his colleague cooking. She told me straight that she was in a relationship with him and they’re expecting a baby.
I asked if she knew about his boyfriend and she just laughed. I called him and my number was blocked. When we called with her number he answered and called her ‘babe’.
I wanted to beat her up but remembered she said she was pregnant and it wasn’t her fault. My question is why did he lie to me? I gave him four years of my life. I never never cheated or gave him a reason to doubt my love and commitment to him. Why did he choose another girl over me?”
Reactions: I faked my death just to get rid of my girlfriend
The lady’s story had a lot of netizens sympathizing with her explaining that she should not blame herself but move on.
However, men in the comment section asserted that they have done worse to dump a woman they did not have feelings for anymore. See some comments below;
@Lesego Maake: One thing I know about my gender, when they want you out they’ll make a plan. Three years ago I faked my death just to get rid of my girlfriend. My friends played along and organised my funeral. Mogurl came and sat on the mattress for a few days. I don’t know why she did that cause we weren’t even married. I bumped into her with her new man 4 months after my death and said “ja neh, vele you couldn’t even wait for 6 months?” She fainted.
@Andiswa Vakalisa Andie: Just remember there is absolutely nothing wrong with you, he made his choice and now it’s time for you to choose yourself. Moving on is going to be hard but you have to. I’m sorry you going through such, but you will be okay ♥♥love and light to you sweetheart
@Nompumelelo Mpumi: ??Sorry for laughing but men just lie about everything when they want to leave. He once told me that he went to consult (sangoma/prophet can’t remember which one was it) and he was told that the name of the person bewitching him starts with the letter M and I’m Mpumi???
@Sammy King Makaveli: That’s how we are I onced faked that I was in ICU so that I can go spend a whole month away with my side chick and she never found out…..
@Tammy Betty: In love always leave a room for disappointments
@PapaNomvelo Moyo: Sometime dont always be a saint in a relationship, cheat too they is nothing to loose
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Nigerian Lady Dumps Boyfriend for Being Perfect
Meanwhile, a Nigerian man was left heartbroken after his girlfriend dumped him for being too perfect.
The young man, identified as @RoarfxA, narrated his experience while responding to a post by social media influencer, Shola.
In a post on Twitter, Shola said the fastest way for a man to lose his girl is by being too nice and vulnerable, telling her everything like a crybaby.
