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How To Easily Attract Women

If you want to know how to attract women of all calibers (the ones in your league and those quite out of it), then I have a secret to share with you.

You don’t need to be Bill Gates (yes, I mean wealth, what else?) or Hugh Jackman (need I elaborate?) to get the girl of your dreams. What you need are certain values that make you stand apart from the masses. Women are never attracted to mediocrity. No one is.

The First Law of Attraction

How can you attract women when all you do is sit on your ass all day watching Netflix? Browsing Twitter 24/7? What woman wants a couch potato?

You want a wife but are the type to not take responsibility. There are outstanding bills and debts, you haven’t done a medical screening in ages. You gorge on junk food, drink beer like it’s water, and avoid the gym like it’s a pandemic.

Bro, if this is the case with you, you can certainly do better.

When you develop yourself personally with proper diet and habits, you will increase your confidence and become more attractive to women.

Related: Why Women Cheat

Major Reasons Men Wish to Attract Women

Well, I can tell you that men who are inherently attracted to women (cishet men) and wish to socialize only do so for two main reasons.

  • s3xual Intercourse: Oh, the joy of a casual hookup, a no-strings-attached coupling of genitalia. s3x is the basic reason most cishet men wish to attract women. That primal need to share seed. Of course, these days, modern man is more about pleasure than reproduction. Why do you think the condom factory hasn’t run out of business?
  • Relationship: Yet some of us believe in true love, and if we can’t have that we’ll settle for intimacy, even when that comes with certain costs. You’re reading this article because you want to know how to attract a possible partner. You want to share your life (or a part of it) with someone. We don’t blame you. We want that too. No one really wants to be alone.

5 Ways To Easily Attract Women

Originally, I thought of telling you only three ways, but seeing how desperate you look you clearly need all the help you can get. And what are friends for?

I will tell you about five tips that make you irresistible to women. If you are looking for a happy, life-long relationship, the kind of relationship where you are married to your best friend and you’re in love forever, then these are the tips you must use.

Also, hear me. My work is the result of sleepless hours and an unhealthy dose of caffeine, but my information is legit nonetheless. You would be wise to heed my words because I will give you skills (science-based skills) that actually work. If you want that life-long relationship, if you’re looking for the love of your life, read this article to the end.

Now, the first tip is …

Related: Why Men Cheat

She Wants A Real Man

If you cannot squat with a shark, women want no business with you.

What I mean by this is she wants a man who’s authentic, who’s like… human. Society tries to tell us that we should be perfect, that we should be plastic and fake like supermodels (no hate, here). At the end of the day, though, none of us are actually like that, including the supermodels.

Believe me, I have studied many supermodels (for educational purposes, of course). I have watched their journey from grass to grace and back to grass in terms of appearances, so I can tell you nothing lasts forever. Not even Botox injections.

A woman who isn’t toxic knows she’s not perfect and is very aware of her imperfections. So what she wants is a man who isn’t perfect. She’s not saying you shouldn’t groom and develop yourself. She wants someone who doesn’t take much personally. Someone who can laugh at himself and who she can laugh with. She wants someone realistic.

Assertiveness is Preferred

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When you are assertive, you know how to set appropriate and respectful boundaries. This lets women know you have respect for yourself and frankly, it makes them feel safer around you. Most men don’t use assertion. They feel like setting boundaries is unkind in some way, but the truth is when you do it the right way, it makes women feel comfortable with you.

In case you don’t understand what I mean by boundaries, it’s simply calling a person out for any attitude or behavior you consider disrespectful.

When you aren’t assertive and don’t set appropriate boundaries, you let the tension and frustration build up and it’s easy to just snap at someone and be a little unkind. Also, if you’re not assertive, women will not respect you. No one will respect a person who doesn’t respect himself enough to set boundaries. Knowing how to do this little thing is a game-changer.

People say “nice guys don’t get the girl.” Wrong. “Non-assertive guys don’t get the girl.”

Related: Red Flags In Relationships You Must Not Ignore

Women Want Maturity

Pay close attention to what I’m about to tell you. This one mistake is a major reason many men are still single now. In fact, I could say it’s the biggest thing that keeps really good guys single.

You’re with me?

What worked in high school to get the girl will not work as an adult.

Numerous guys learned how to text girls and talk to girls in high school. How to date or have casual flings. Maybe you’re one of these guys, you got that perfect mix of charm and confidence. Good for you.

But all that will not work on a mature woman. She is grown up, looking for a man. She doesn’t want to see you as a schoolboy. Doesn’t want to have the same feelings she had while hanging out with the boys in high school. She wants to see a man grown, ready to take responsibility for everything that happens in his life. She wants to be assured of stability. If you look like you cannot take care of yourself, there’s no chance that she will be interested.

If you want her to see you as a man, let alone marriage material, then you should learn basic survival skills (read books, educate yourself). After that, monetary skills (getting a job with a stable income). Then lastly, social skills. I mean effective communication.

That’s the game-changer. That’s the only way you’ll find your type of woman, the only way to get the woman you really want instead of getting a toxic woman or a needy one.

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Compassion is a Plus

This might come as a surprise to you. In fact, I’m sure it’s not what society tells you. But women actually want a man with compassion, a man with rough yet gentle hands. Pardon the irony but you know damn well what I mean.

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Some men, especially those with whom life dealt a hard hand, are averse to compassion because they think it makes them look weak. Running around shouting hard guy, hard guy. It’s a mindset that should be abolished but you try emptying the Atlantic Ocean with a bucket. Yeah, not possible, is it?

The kind of woman you want to spend the rest of your life with … doesn’t want an unfeeling brute. Compassion naturally draws her to you. It is actually one of the most masculine things you can do.

“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle.” ― Plato.

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And last, but certainly not least …

Don’t Mess with Religion

This is more a warning than a tip. No matter the level of affection, no matter how deeply you connect, it is ill-advised to marry someone of a different faith. Women inherently know this, and any man, no matter how eligible, who doesn’t share her faith (if she is religious) will never be her husband, not if she has something to say about it.

Even if you are an atheist, she will expect you to have some regard for her faith. Interfaith marriages are one of the types of marriages that have high risks of divorce.


How lucky you are, dear reader, to have read this article. Most people would sell a kidney or two to learn all the information you just acquired for free. Now you know what makes women consider men for marriage, how to apply them in your life to see results, and how to conduct yourself around women in a way that makes them believe they can build a future with you. Once you master my tips, finding a wife and a life partner will be a cakewalk.

If you have any further questions, let us know below.

Daniel Maxwell
Daniel Maxwellhttps://www.d-pari.com
Journalist. Researcher. Writer