The hype and tension with how to find a husband is getting wesser and wesser. Omo wahala be like bicycle! No matter how much we hear that marriage isn’t an achievement, and the horrific and life-threatening stories about how some women suffer, women still look for husbands.
It’s like no matter how cold the river gets, fishes still refuse to put on sweaters. Or kind of how life can be sweet but boys still prefer to drink alomo bitters.
Yup, no matter how bad the road is, you still have to take it! Ain’t that the truth when it comes to marriage?
Who is an Ideal Husband?
Ideally, a husband is a devoted companion who is always there to provide comfort, support, and understanding in times of need. But I would like to describe a husband as a warm blanket on a cold night; always there when you need them!
Looking for a husband is like shopping for shoes – you have to try on lots of different ones before you find the perfect fit! It is like a game of chess – you have to plan your moves carefully and take your time!”
The Husband Hunt: Don’t Dive In Or Find Blindly
Ready to find your Mr. Right? First things first. You know that it’s not all roses and sunshine right? You’ll need to be prepared for some things. Don’t worry, I’m not trying to scare you off. I just don’t want you trapped.
So, if you’re not ready for any of that, it’s probably best to save yourself the trouble and not bother trying to find a husband. After all, why waste your time if you’re not ready for the ride?
- Be prepared to laugh at his jokes, even if they make you cry.
- Get ready to listen to his stories, even if they put you to sleep.
- Be ready to love football, even if sports are your worst nightmare.
- Endeavor to be open to compromise and negotiation, even if it means skipping your best meals.
- Get ready to accept his flaws and imperfections, even if they’re glaringly obvious.
- Be willing to forgive and forget, even if it means pretending nothing happened.
- Prepare to be patient and understanding, even if it means biting your tongue. Be ready to babysit a grown man, even if it means singing him a lullaby to bed.
- Get ready to find your house upside down, even if you spent the weekend cleaning.
- Be ready to understand eye signs, even if it means learning a new language.
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Get Yourself Together For A Husband: Find Your Prince Charming
Now that you have seen what you’re getting into and are still willing to carry on, the first step to finding a husband is getting yourself glammed up.
- Develop an outgoing personality.
- Train yourself with the appropriate ethics and character.
- Exercise, eat healthily, and pay attention to your appearance.
- Look for ways to improve your confidence and self-esteem.
- Take classes or workshops to improve your communication skills.
- Get a new haircut, or new hairstyle, buy new outfits, and invest in some flattering makeup.
All of these things will help you attract the right kind of man.
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Know What You Want: Your Perfect Recipe For A Husband
Now that you’re feeling great and looking and behaving your best, it’s time to start looking for your missing rib. Just like a chef needs the right ingredients to make a delicious meal, you need the right ingredients to find the perfect husband.
Remember, no man has it all, but if you can mix and match the right ingredients, you can bake the perfect husband! Make a list of the qualities you’re looking for in a potential partner. The under-listed spices will help you make a great list:
- Responsible: A good husband is like a good meal – well-seasoned, cultured, and ready to serve!
- Family Oriented: A good husband is like a family recipe, always supporting to bring everyone together, regardless of the family tribe!
- Respectful: A good husband is like a fine wine, always giving the best taste and appreciating your opinion of it.
- Kind: A good husband is like a warm soup – always tasty, soft to the tongue, comforting, and quenching the hunger.
- Sense of Humor: A good husband is like a good joke – always funny and lighthearted!
- Self Control: A good husband is like a well-cooked steak – always tender, managing, giving off the best emotions, and in control!
- Easy Going: A good husband is like a good salad – always fresh, flexible, and willing to compromise on any vegetables!
- Loyal: A good husband is like a good dessert – always trustworthy, sweet, and loyal!
- Committed: A good husband is like a good cake – always there to commit to decisions and promises!
- Mental Maturity: A good husband is like a good cheese – always mature and dependable!
Find the Right Kind of Husband: The Ideal Venue
Now that you know what kind of man you’re looking for, it’s time to start searching. Look for him at places where you’re likely to meet single, eligible men. Find below some places you can fetch these drops.
- Grocery Store: If you’re lucky, you may find a husband picking out his favorite cereal.
- Airport: You might meet the man of your dreams while waiting for your flight.
- Gym: A great place to find a muscular husband with a healthy lifestyle.
- Coffee Shop: Maybe you’ll find a husband with a passion for coffee and good conversation.
- Bar: If you’re looking for a night out, you could find a husband to share it with.
- Church: Pray for your soul mate and maybe you’ll find him at church.
- Online Dating Sites: If all else fails, the internet always has potential husbands, examples are Tinder, Match.com, Bumble, etc.
Husband Hunting Tips: Ready to Discover
Now that you know where to find a husband and what kind of man to look for, it’s time to start meeting men. Here are five strategies for meeting the right kind of man:
- Smile and make eye contact.
- Be confident.
- Take the initiative.
- Make conversation and find out things.
- Ask questions and show genuine interest in the conversation.
- Find out if he is in a relationship
- Be yourself.
Tying The Knot: Get Him To Say I Do
Now that you’ve found a potential husband, it’s time to take the next step and make him marry you. Here are some strategies to make him marry you:
- Make him feel special. Show him that you appreciate him.
- Be supportive. Show him that you’re there for him.
- Be understanding. Show him that you’re willing to compromise.
- Show him respect. Respect his opinions and decisions.
- Make an effort. Show him that you’re willing to make an effort in the relationship.
- Show commitment. Make sure he knows that you’re committed to the relationship.
- Be patient. Don’t rush him into a decision. Give him time to think it through and make sure he’s ready.
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The Quest for the Perfect Husband: May the Best Man Win!
It can be difficult to deal with rejection when you’re looking for a husband. It’s also important to remember that it’s not personal and that there’s someone out there who will appreciate you for who you are. Don’t take rejection too hard and keep searching for that perfect person.
And oh! Ladies of Nigeria! If you’re part of the search, well, look no further than the Shiloh ground! It’s the perfect place to hunt for your dream guy! Just take a picture of the guy in your dreams with you. And you know what? There have been many success stories of women who have found their dream husbands at the Shiloh ground! So why not give it a try? Who knows, you might just find your perfect match!
Fishing for the Perfect Husband: Cast Your Line Wide!
Honey! This venture is like a puzzle – it may be challenging, but if you take the time to put all the pieces together, you’ll find the perfect match! Yes, compare it to a scavenger hunt, be willing to go the extra mile and explore all of your options. Don’t be too picky though.
Oh, I forgot; this may sound uneasy to hear but a husband is like a fish. You have to get good bait, cast your line wide and amidst a million fishes in the river, catch one who salivates for your bait.
You know I wish you stumble on a golden one right? Well, your golden whale might be my silver or clay; that’s the mystery of choosing a husband. Be bold, take up this adventure, for I hear the bells already. The aisle beckons.
