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How To Impress a Girl (20+ Ways to be Indispensable as a Man)

How to impress a girl is a big question on the mind of men every time they meet someone they like. You would not believe me if I told you the answer to this. I talked about how men have always tried to appeal to the eternal image of women in my last article.

How to impress a girl

The urge to impress women has increased so much, especially these days. Men make it a priority to ensure their crush sees them in an almost perfect light. It is not an easy task to achieve because different women have different standards. You have to appeal to their idea, or you are left empty-handed.

I have always punished myself with the task of finding the answer to this question. I came up with many such as;

  1. Be there for her
  2. Make her laugh
  3. Be chivalrous
  4. Show her off
  5. Love her

Don’t get me wrong, those points can work too. But that is not the best way to be indispensable to a woman as a man.

I have kept you longing for the answer for too long. The best way to impress a woman is to not try to impress a woman.

Did that shock you? Listen to me for a second. It can be very easy for you to get carried away in the rumble-jumble of trying to impress a woman and forget you are the main ingredient to consider.

The tips I would be sharing today would include grooming yourself because, without you, there would be no impressing to do.

How To Impress a Girl

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How To Impress A Girl Physically

When you have a girl in sight, and you feel it needful to impress her, there are some steps to take;

1. Be Confident

Be Confident

Confidence is key when it comes to impressing a girl. You have to exude an air of fearlessness and independence. Confidence can come from things you’ve acquired or can also come from self-love and practice.

Confidence is very attractive and admirable when worn by a guy. This is the very first step to take in impressing a girl. You should try to build more confidence if you want to be successful on the road to impress girls.

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2. Be Neat

Be Neat

My mother gave me this advice as a young boy. She said, “When you appear neat and presentable, that’s a one-way ticket into the heart of a woman”.

It might seem far-fetched to think taking care of yourself will get you the ladies, but it’s not. Just as Big Joe said, “Don’t chase butterflies. Build a garden, and they will come to you. If they don’t, you still have a garden”.

3. Improve your mind

Improve your mind

Work on yourself. Get smarter and more articulate. It’s only when you are in love with yourself that you can truly impress someone else. Many men stay idle and refuse to update themselves on their environment and surroundings.

Improving your mind would make you more eloquent and articulate when you approach a woman.

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4. Acquire a Skill or Get a Hobby

The whole idea behind this is to get busy. There is nothing attractive about a man that is always available for a girl. A man who is busy and has things going on in his life is very much likely to impress a girl.

If you are struggling to find what to do, you can learn a skill. Something that would keep you busy with the prospect of a better future.

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5. Have priorities in your Life

 Have priorities in your Life

It would be unserious of you to make a woman number one in your life to impress her. Show her that you have priorities and she would have to do better to be a top priority.

A man who has no former priorities before meeting a girl is not fit to be thinking of impressing her. Get your acts together, bro.

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6. Have a listening ear

Have a listening ear

If you want someone to feel good about themselves, keep them talking about themselves. This applies to girls too. Most guys think the best way to impress a girl is to keep talking about themselves. That’s the wrong way to go.

Let them talk about themselves and things going on in their life. Have a listening ear and speak when necessary. This will help in the long run.

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7. Maintain Cautious Chivalry

Maintain Cautious Chivalry

I picked my words carefully. A chivalrous attitude is nice to have. You get to be a hero and be characterized by selflessness.

The issue is chivalry can be mistaken for stupidity when done too much. Pick the correct times to be chivalrous and sometimes just be yourself (not chivalrous).

8. Respect Her and Yourself

This is very important when it concerns your impressing a girl. Respect is attractive and endearing. When you respect a girl, she feels safe around you and also wants more from you. There are many ways to respect a girl, such as;

  1. Value her opinions
  2. Make her a priority
  3. Consent is key
  4. Honesty is the best policy, even in relationships
  5. Appreciate her through gifts and actions.

It is not enough to respect a girl alone, you have to respect yourself as a man. Some girls can be daring to test the limits with you and keep poking at your ingenuity and masculinity. Make sure you put a line they mustn’t cross. There is no long-term benefit in allowing a woman to disrespect you.

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9. Be Honest

I was told by friends in my first year of university that I was too honest. They told girls don’t like the truth and they love lies. I adopted this philosophy and forgot who I was.

I realized the flaw in this when you build anything on dishonesty, it continues that way. Ensure you stay honest with girls. They’ll value your opinion more.

10. Show love

Show love

I’m sure you are wondering why showing love is last on my list. Well, because showing love is the least way to impress a woman. After you’ve actualized steps 1-9, then you can successfully use ten as the universal solution, and it would work.

Showing love is a projection of emotional weakness towards a girl, and that is very impressive.

This top 10 list intensifies that self-development is the best way to impress a lady. Showing love is important, too, but self-development produces self-love and heightens self-confidence.

How To Impress A Girl During Texting

It’s no news that texting is very different from physical meetings. One major difference when you text is you leave it up to the girl’s mind to draw up an idea of you.

This can be a very tricky situation, especially if you haven’t met the girl before. There are tips to consider if you want to be able to impress girls during the text.

1. Be Interesting

I’m not asking you to be a clown. Being interesting is all about being dynamic and unpredictable with your words. Don’t just have one boring pattern of chatting. Mix things up.

Have ways to spice chats up. You can play Would you rather games or Truth or Dare. You should come up with ways that make talking to you a stress-free activity.

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2. Don’t overuse emoji

Don't overuse emoji

Can you see how childish that text looks? That’s how you look when you offload a truck of emojis on a girl you are chatting with. The use of emoji is to amplify our reaction to text for better understanding, but it should not be used indiscriminately.

3. Stay in the Driver’s Seat

It is usual to come in contact with women of different temperaments. They may be nice, calm, rude, angry, comforting, and many others.

However, she acts during the chat to ensure you are in control of the direction the chat is going. The moment you feel slipping away from you, take some time off to reset.

4. Be Real

I can not overemphasize the importance of being real on chat. It is beneficial to be yourself and not create an avatar you might not be able to live up to in person.

Being real takes so much more pressure off you than you can imagine.

5. Be Direct

There’s no use beating around the bush. A real man goes for what he was head-on. Whether it’s the first time texting or not, be clear and direct about your wants.

This will save you unnecessary headaches.

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6. Use Pick up lines

7. Know When to Stop

Don’t go on chatting for 12 hours like that’s your day Job. If it has gone on for long enough, find something else to do. Being available does not guarantee that she will be impressed.

There’s nothing more unimpressive than a man that is always online chatting.

8. Be Confident

9. Be eloquent

10. Arrange Dates

The main reason for social media and online texting is to build relationships in the hopes that they would materialize into physical and offline relationships.

Prove that you mean business by asking her out on a date.

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How To Impress A Girl in Bed

How To Impress A Girl

You’re still here?

Alright, you must be enjoying the knowledge I’m dishing out.

This has to be one of the most tricky aspects when it comes to impressing a woman. It is very easy to clog your head with thoughts on what to do and how to do that you end up insufficient.

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I can help. Trust me

Here are tips to use to impress your woman in bed.

1. Have s3xual Conversations

Many guys run away from this. It can help you converse with your girl about what she likes in bed. This will relieve you of the tension of not knowing what to do.

You can also talk during s3x. It doesn’t have to be a mute competition. Ask her if she likes what you just did or if you should do something else.

2. Don’t be Selfish

It would shock you to know the number of selfish men out there. Most men use girls as a means to an end, which is to ejaculate. That impresses no one.

When in bed with your girl, ensure you are not selfish. Focus on pleasuring her and doing what she likes. When she is satisfied, you can be sure she would return the favour.

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3. Appreciate her Body

You should admire your girl’s body the way you would admire a well-crafted sculpture. Look at it, touch it, bury yourself in her. It can be very soothing and comforting on the part of a girl when she knows her partner loves her body.

4. Easy does it”

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Contrary to popular opinion about how ladies like it hard in bed, it’s the opposite. s3x should be progressive, build it up from low to high, cold to warm to hot.

5. Adopt s3xual Roleplay

s3xual role play is an activity in which partners play the roles of characters in an imaginary scenario during s3x.

Role-playing during s3x can be fun and distracting from the present. It puts you both in a different light and allows you to act as you wouldn’t normally.

It is impressive when a guy is so comfortable that he can roleplay.

6. Cuddle

Cuddle

7. Prioritize Foreplay

8. Be Confident

9. Watch her Body language

10. Work with your hands

Don’t let your hands stay idle. Let it keep working even as you are in action. It can either be fondling or doing other intimate actions.

Conclusion

There you have it! 20+ Ways to be Indispensable as a Man to a Girl. My points may come out as shocking, but they work.

Remember, Mastery is in practice.

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Moibi Damilare
Moibi Damilare
Moibi Damilare has a traditional and classical outlook on life. He is often criticised for being critical and one-sided on trending issues which is opposite for such a happy, disciplined and lovely soul.