A Nigerian marriage counsellor has shared how she was able to let go of her past s3x life and receive a new life.
In a tweet by @adarathexplorer, she narrated how she dealt with self-condemnation before marriage.
She recalled how she prayed and fasted about her past relationship memories and wished never to compare her husband with any of her past lovers.
According to her, she said God erased the odd memories from her and she is thankful to God for that.
Learn your spouse behaviour
In her words she said for one to enjoy his or her marriage, you must learn your spouse’s behaviour.
She further added that this can only be done if one does not live in memories of the previous partners before the spouse.
In her conclusion, she recommended prayer for everyone who desire to forget their past memories
Reactions: Will prayer erase previous memories?
Many Netizens have found her piece of advice useful and hope to make use of the recommended secret while others react otherwise. See reactions below:
@Bkt_ATH: Will prayer erase previous s3x memories? you can pray all you want. if your ex is your co-worker or lives in the neighbourhood (any contact) your marriage is in danger. knowing is not doing.
@D’n On Eagle: This is indeed something that people have to understand. Thank you for this honest and uplifting testimony
@umunnachinedum: Kudos to your husband, and even more kudos to you. I wish you both a beautiful life together. Thanks for sharing.
@amaayaaaah: I remember having a conversation with my friend a few months ago telling her that i wouldn’t mind marrying a man who wasn’t a virgin, but that my fear would be that he’d compare me to his previous partners. this was so beautiful and hopeful to read!
@OluwaDamilolaade: This is so apt and this was my story exactly.. Hubby was a virgin I wasn’t but we learnt each other’s body and now he’s my super star in the act
@josephmmadua: After reading this, the only thing I can say is that while forgiveness abounds, the consequences of all actions also abound. We all agreed that w:men carry imprints of all the m;en they slept with around. It affects the person they’ll later settle with in marriage.
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Meanwhile, Forty-six-year-old comedian and actress, Chioma Omeruah, popularly known as Chigul proudly revealed that she got married as a virgin at age 33.
The amazing comedian revealed that she never defiled herself until her wedding day.
However, the devastating thing is that the marriage crashed a year later.
