- A Nigerian Writer aired his views on why he thought dating in this generation was such a mess.
- He shared that he thought fundamentalism was the main issue and that people lacked individuality.
- He shared that people drifted to either side of an extreme and always wanted their way which amazed netizens.
A Nigerian man shared why dating in this generation is worse than it has ever been.
The man, a Nigerian writer shared on Twitter the reason why he felt that dating in this generation was an unpleasant endeavour.
Sharing in a tweet, he said that dating was once a curiosity-driven and gracious affair but now it has become a trauma-filled vetting system.
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Going on, he wrote about the imbalances of dating in this generation, citing that people always tilted to one extreme or the other, never finding a middle ground.
He went on to say that the idea of a good relationship today was that a party always had their way and putting your foot down meant being controlling.
Dating in this generation is just hard
The core of the matter was that people lacked individuality and being faced with individuality meant an attack.
In conclusion, he said there was too much power struggle with no room for compromise.
His tweet was greeted with informed responses which further buttressed why dating in this generation was so bad.
@SimiyuTolbert: “It’s interesting, the view of the world through your lenses. And with fundamentalism comes the transactional view of relationships, since we can no longer exist to complement each other.”
@YouthspireNG: “I didn’t read all your post but I’m bookmarking to read when my village people finally let me breath today. It sounds like it has great insights.”
@primeadvocate: “I love how you’re able to describe with almost acute precision the “dating” condition being experienced right now.”
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Slay queen warned ladies against dating broke men
Meanwhile, in an unpopular opinion, a slay queen warned ladies against dating broke men.
In the video trending on Instagram, the lady strongly advised ladies never to go on a date with a 50/50 man. In her opinion, a 50/50 man was one who would want to split the bill whenever he went on a date with a female.
She added that any man worth going on a date with had to do all he can to impress and satisfy the lady.
