A multibillion-dollar question, “why do women cheat, especially wives?” I respectfully dodge this bullet right now. Officially operating as Omawumi at the moment, If you ask me, abeg, na whom I go ask?
But I choose to ask though, was this country not on the map when God said let there be light? Because each evening my doctor neighbor leaves for the night shift, his wife goes to charge her phone in our caretaker’s flat. At one point, I noticed that all the guys in the compound got new generators. Omo na only me waka come. She don carry belle, born am, and the baby is an albino and stammers just like the albino caretaker, I didn’t say anything ooo.
What do you think though? Is our dear NEPA responsible for this alleged latest DNA agony in the pipeline or is it the unavailability of this utility in her flat? Maybe if my neighbor had provided this amenity for the wife, there might be no reason for this trap of charging phones and private parts.
Why Do Women Cheat: Unraveling the Mystery Of Cheating in Marriage
Cheating is one hell and drama of a word. The Lovers’ Association is making all preparations to propel its inclusion in the Guinness Book of Records as one of the most disastrous words in the world. However, cheating is not a new concept; it has been around since the days of old. It’s a topic that is discussed in hushed tones, but also in loud arguments. Although cheating is a very aged syndrome, it is still considered taboo in many parts of the country.
But why is it that some women feel the need to stray from their marital vows?
It is an age-old dilemma and one that can be hard to answer. That being said, there are a few theories out there as to why wives may be unfaithful. And here, we’ll explore some of the possible motivations behind this.
Lust and Looks: The Original Cheats
The story of Joseph and Potiphar’s wife, as narrated in the Bible, is a classic example of this. In this story, Joseph was gifted with great beauty and wisdom, and Potiphar’s wife was so taken with him that she begged him to sleep with her. She was so insistent that Joseph had no choice but to flee from her.
Women may be attracted to other men because of their looks or lustful feelings. This could be due to the fact that the woman’s partner is not as physically attractive as she would like, or that she is looking for something more exciting. A lot of women endure and do not enjoy s3xual adventures with their spouses.
Lack of Companionship: A Cheating Catalyst
Lack of companionship, communication gap, and lack of attention can lead to cheating wives. Women often feel neglected when their husbands are busy with work or other commitments, so they may be tempted to seek attention and affection elsewhere. Similarly, if spouses don’t communicate properly, it can lead to misunderstandings and even resentment, which in turn can metamorphose into cheating.
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Bad Character: A Recipe for Disaster
Nagging, aggression, violence and bad character from husbands can also push wives to look for comfort and companionship elsewhere. While no one should be blamed for a spouse’s cheating, if a husband is constantly hitting, abusing, criticizing, or belittling his wife, it can cause her to feel unappreciated and unloved. This can lead her to seek comfort outside the marriage.
Trust Issues: The Silent Killer
A woman once said, “Trust is the foundation of any relationship. Trust is like a mirror; once it’s broken, it can never be fixed.”
The most common reason for cheating wives is a lack of trust in their husbands. Many wives feel that their husbands are not honest with them or that their husbands are not giving them the attention they need. This can lead to feelings of betrayal and mistrust, which can cause a wife to look for solace elsewhere.
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Women’s Revenge: A Marriage’s Achilles Heel
In some cases, women may cheat as a form of revenge. This could be in response to a partner who has wronged them in some way, such as cheating or being unfaithful. Cheating as revenge can be an act of empowerment, as it can be a way to take control of a situation that the woman felt powerless.
Peer Pressure And Wealth: The Perfect Recipe for Cheating
Peer pressure can also be a factor. Women may be tempted to cheat if they feel like their friends or peers are doing it too. If they see that the financial gains are also mouth-watering, they will be tempted to key in.
Many women in developing countries depend on their husbands for financial security, so when their husbands fail to provide for them, they may look elsewhere for support.
Women’s Financial Independence: A Cheat’s Magical Potion
Sugar mummy adventurism has encouraged cheating amongst women by providing an outlet for them to explore different types of relationships, often involving a financial exchange. This factor that has encouraged women to cheat increases the number of women who are now the main breadwinners in their households.
This has led to more women having the financial independence to pursue their own interests, including relationships with younger men. It has also meant that women are more likely to feel bored or unsatisfied in their relationships and seek out different experiences.
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To Cheat Is Hereditary: A biological Menace
It is believed that women have a tendency to cheat due to genetic inheritance. This could be a result of the genes of a parent or even a grandparent. It has also been suggested that women with a history of cheating in their families are more likely to cheat themselves. For example, if a woman’s mother or father had a history of cheating, she may be more likely to follow suit.
Impotency: A Faithful Woe
In some cases, women may cheat because of an inability to bear children as a result of impotence from the man. This could lead to feelings of depression and loneliness, and the woman may seek out a partner who can give her the family she desires.
Gender determination of the children can also cause women to look outside of the marriage in search of children. In some cultures and traditions, such as the Igbo, male children are particularly valued, so if a woman keeps giving birth to female children, she may feel the need to look outside in search of a male heir.
Job Exposure: Some Partner’s Nightmare
The type of job a woman has can also expose her to temptations. Women in professions like the armed force, nursing, beer parlor selling, club business, masseurs, and others are more likely to be affected by distance, time of service delivery, and nature of contact with men.
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Social Media: Women’s Cheating Easy Access
Social media can also be a contributory factor to women cheating. Facebook and Twitter are full of potential partners, and women may be tempted to pursue these relationships for excitement or validation. The ease of access to potential partners on social media can make cheating more accessible and more likely to occur.
The Complexity of Cheating: No Simple Answer
The ridiculous responses one gets when a cheating woman gets caught can be mind-blowing. Talmabout “It is the work of the devil”.
Oh, it’s the Eve episode again, Serpent (Devil) is responsible. “I don’t know what came over me”. Oh, it was a trance perhaps, or maybe you were hypnotized? “It’s not what it looks like.” Please, what does it look like? Are we in a movie? Maybe this is some sort of Hollywood shoot. “It was an accident” Haba! aunty fear God oooo. You were not on the highway.
Gone are the days when people used to fall on other people’s private parts when walking down the road.
The reality is that there is no single answer as to why women cheat, or anybody for that matter. It’s important to remember that every woman’s situation is unique and her motivations will vary. However, by understanding the underlying motivations behind infidelity, we can gain a better understanding of why some women feel the need to imitate the prodigal son. Please give me another chance. “Don’t you trust me”? “He is my uncle”. “I was missing you”. These excuses and responses are stale and lame. They are switched off and are currently not available at the moment. So let’s hug the world of morality and normalize prioritizing the feelings of whomever we care for.
Shutting Off The Thread: Hunt Cheating
How do we double-cross cheating and give it a chilly blood bath. Bloody nuisance. Feed it a pint of its bitter pills. It’s the audacity for me, like no one is an exception. The breakfast is distributed equally.
Pull the trigger on that traitor. Call 911, a global casualty is close by. Convict the notorious emotional terrorist.
