A Nigerian man has cried out to the world on social space regarding the difficult demand of his wife-to-be.
In a Facebook group, the man identified as Oty Pius who hails from Akwa Ibom confessed that he had already met the family of the lady and had gone ahead to do the ceremonial introduction, hence their wedding was coming up soon.
Oty however stated that his wife-to-be has made it clear to him that she doesn’t want to see his younger brother who has been living with him.
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He added that at the time they were dating, he told her that he was the firstborn of his family she in fact knew he was living with him, hence the sudden demand was surprising.
Oty who was confused sought advice from social media users about what to do regarding the issue.
“Please house I have a woman to marry. When I met her I told her every thing. That I am first born to my parents, so me and my last born was living together. She always see the boy. It was last month I just go for introduction now. She said she didn’t want to see that my small brother. Please what should I do?” he said.
Reactions: She should back out now imagine
The man’s cry out caught the attention of social media users. Most advised him to find out his wife to be’s reason before making the decision of whether to let her go or send his brother packing. See some comments below;
@Julie Maze: Who knows! Maybe your brother offended her and she might not go in details of telling you. But you will only know if she says her reason why.
@Nneka Faith: She should back out now, imagine
@Nnadi Kings Chinedu: I just hope your wife-to-be is asking him to leave for both of you to have your privacy and not out of hatred for your small brother. There should not be a third person/third party in a young marriage as yours. Unless the both of you discussed and agreed on it. A third party in a marriage usually brings up challenges and quarrels if not well checked. So, if the boy is old enough to live on his own, rent a room elsewhere for him. If not, send him back to your parents or any good relation who can take good care of him.
@Juliet Simbol: What is your wife-to-be reason because there is not smoke without fire
@Damilola Adeolajide: Wahala…. Anyways it’s alright it’s still introduction. Just wisely find out why your wife-to-be said she doesn’t want to see the boy. If no tangible reason then she should be the one to go. It’s a very big sign that she doesn’t even want any of your family around you then.
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Nigerian man loses interest in girlfriend after two weeks of dating, cries out
Meanwhile, a Nigerian man took to TikTok to express his dilemma about losing interest in his girlfriend and struggling with how to communicate this to her.
In a video featuring the couple in the back seat of a car, he shared his confusion and uncertainty about the situation.
The man mentioned that he has a pattern of not being able to sustain a relationship for more than two months. Despite describing his girlfriend as a sweet soul and could easily become a wife-to-be to anyone, he acknowledged his dwindling interest in her.
