- A pharmacist advised women to hear the side of an ex-wife before thinking of marrying a divorced man.
- She made the statement as a means for women to protect themselves against possible mishaps.
- The opinion was greeted with many reactions as some thought the advice went both ways while others completely disagreed.
Obianuju, a pharmacist advised women who were thinking about marrying a divorced man on social media which sparked the interest of netizens.
She advised them to get in touch with their future partner’s ex-wife to learn the details of their divorce in a post she published on Thursday, August 3.
After learning what caused their marriage to fail, she gave them sound advice: use caution and carefully consider your options before getting married to the man.
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The pharmacist advised women in a tweet saying,
“Nigerian women, Before you marry a divorced man, abeg reach out to his ex-wife and have deep conversations to find out what led to divorce. Then apply wisdom, and count the cost”.
Her tweet received a range of responses on social media, with some thinking the advice is ambiguous and others disagreeing with her position.
@Mia_ghe096 wrote, “To think she only mentioned man when it applies to both men and women shows she lacks wisdom”
@xmackbaba wrote, “Nonsense write up. So you expect the ex wife to agree that she was the reason for the divorce abi.”
@garry_tee wrote, “A man can be cruel to A and be a slave to B. Don’t ask me, it’s a reality.”
@tenovartonautos wrote, “This is applicable only when the person you’re going to ask will agree to be honest. Most of the time, people don’t ever take responsibility for failed relationships, friendships, or marriages. How many people will say “I messed up”? You’ll ask and you’ll hear how much of a bad person the ex is u til you come in contact with the said ex and experience something totally different. If you love someone enough, find out for yourself who they are while dating or courting. Some people treat people according to what they deserve which is not a true definition of their personality.”
Nigerian man advised married women to resort to infidelity if their husband is impotent
In an unpopular opinion, a Nigerian man advised married women to resort to infidelity if their husband is impotent.
Joshua Orochi, recently used social media as a platform to offer advice to women who encounter challenges with male infertility within their marriages.
In a Facebook post, he candidly encouraged women not to be oblivious to their situation and instead suggested exploring other avenues to achieve pregnancy, even if it involved seeking it discreetly from someone other than their husbands.
