A Nigerian man warned females advising them to not marry any man that they mandated to be a mother to.
The man said this in a tweet citing a popular phrase women make when they can no longer bear a man’s excesses but want to stay with him.
He shared that women think they are failures when they leave a man that is not up to par.
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He wrote: “I can’t leave him. If I leave him the way he is, it means I’m a failure”. You have failed already. You’re his mother, the only difference is that he’s sleeping with you. Don’t marry your “son”. End.”
He shared that the mere fact that they think they are failures in such regard means they have truly failed as they have become mothers to grown men.
Do not marry any man that is lazy
The man included that the only difference is that they are sleeping with him.
He further warned women not to marry any man who is a son to them.
His tweet got massive reactions from people who agreed that women should not marry any man who acts like a boy.
@talk2veee: “Some of you have misunderstood the concept of staying & building As women, know when to pull the plug on lazy men.”
@FatenzoO: “Dumping a lazy man who’s comfortable being lazy and has ascribed unto you his leadership position doesn’t make you a failure.”
@swayze_forte: “If she has learned anything here as she has said, she should have left that lazy man a long time ago. You can’t see that you’ve been enabling a lazy man and still put out that DM here asking for Agba’s advice. To tell you what exactly?”
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Don’t marry a lazy man: Female pastor firmly warns single ladies
Meanwhile, in a trending TikTok video, a female pastor firmly warns single ladies not to marry lazy men.
Rev. Funke F. Adejumo taught her congregation that married people should learn to rely on their individuality.
She added that having an income as a woman was going to earn you some respect from your husband.
