- A marriage therapist and relationship expert from South Africa named Bakhe Dlamini revealed that he and his wife have never had s3x throughout the ten years they have been together.
- On Facebook, Dlamini revealed that he and Nokwanda, a community psychologist and social worker, had first connected while still in high school in 2001 and had since been dating to demonstrate that relationships could exist without s3xual activity.
- He claims that after the priest sealed their union as husband and wife, they kissed for the first time.
A South African man, Bakhe Dlamini who is a marriage therapist and relationship expert shared that he and his wife never engaged in any s3xual activity in their ten years of dating.
Dlamini disclosed on Facebook that he and Nokwanda, a social worker and community psychologist, had met when they were both still in high school in 2001 and had been dating ever since. They did this to show that relationships could thrive without s3xual activity.
He asserts that they shared their first kiss following the priest’s official declaration of them as husband and wife.
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South African man recounts how he dated his wife for 10 years
He wrote;
“So my wife & I never kissed during 10 years of dating. We met at high school, 2001, were prom mates following year, and we didn’t kiss. First time I kissed her was when the priest said, “You may kiss the bride”, 10 years later, 2 July 2011. Both of us were virgins too.
I had to be clear with her from word go that I respected her body, preferred we don’t even kiss. I believed in being a gentleman, not rushing a woman. I also mentioned to her that I prefer we don’t even kiss because I knew that the moment we kissed, we’d fall into the trap of s3x before marriage.
I wanted us to get to marriage pure. We also believed in the biblical principle of “no s3x before marriage”. So to those dating and believe in no s3x before marriage, it’s possible. Cheers.”
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My mum was the side chick: Lady recounts how her mum found out her late husband had a first wife
Meanwhile, A Nigerian lady shared how her mum found out the hard way that she was the side chick of her late husband.
In an anonymous message, the young woman shared that they lost their dad recently and found out unsettling information.
The lady who was 20 years and the second child of her mother who gave birth to 3 children shared that after the death of her dad, they visited his village and found out that her mother was unknowingly the second wife of their dad.
