Don’t pray for a good partner, just be 100% strict and realistic – Nigerian man gives tip on how to choose a partner

• A Nigerian man shared his take on how Nigerians pray for a good partner which is a lazy approach.

• He explained a simple approach to choosing a good partner.

• Netizens agreed with his method of choosing a spouse.

A Nigerian man shared his take on how to choose a partner citing that we should not just pray for a good partner.

In a tweet, he stated that lots of people wanted the lazy route out which was to simply pray for a good partner.

However the key to finding a partner was to be 100% strict and realistic in the vetting process.

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He explained that getting to know you own values and seeing how that person matched up to them was important.

Being realistic with said values was also a thing to consider rather than just assume you deserve the best for a partner.

Don’t pray for a good partner, choose one

He wrote in part: “The best you can pray for(even if you have to) is DISCERNING spirit when choosing. Not praying for God to just GIVE you a Good Spouse… That’s lazy.”

His tweet got massive replies as netizens agreed that I wasn’t enough to pray for a good partner.

@smex4real: “In Nigeria, everything is prayer, even things that requires common sense, it’s prayer.”

@king_akatex: “People want to adopt abstract approach to solve issues that require real physical methods.”

@alimi_a_tariQ: “Like popman would say, God does not take any decision for man, you’re the architect of your life and we all know what is good and bad deep down.”

@ayomoore: “You choose your partner and vent them yourself, God won’t do that for you. You need to be realistic and be ready to put in the work.”

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Nigerian man reveals list of things to do when you have a cheating partner

Meanwhile, a concerned Nigerian man reveals list of things to do when you have a cheating partner.

In a TikTok video shared by @Israelonadare, the young man shared that the first thing to do when you have a cheating partner is to protect yourself mentally.

His reason was that by default, people start blaming themselves when they have a partner who cheats. He said it was worse for women because this would lead to ideas of insecurity flooding their minds.